Submissive? Lets start over together in the New Year.
I am a single white man. 44 years old.
It took me a long time to realize who I am. A long time to admit that some things are just nature and instinct.
I am a dominant.
I guess I always have been but it took me this long to admit it 0% to myself.
The relationships that have been most fulfilling for me were when I was given complete control. The keys to the proverbial car, so to speak.
Make no mistake about it; I am looking for a relationship. I want to share real emotions and real feeling but a connection
I am writing this to try to find someone just like me. Well, maybe not like me, but the opposite of me.
I dont want to take anything from anyone, I want to find someone who will give them self to me .
I have never read the Fifty Shades of Grey books but I have lived those scenarios with great joy. My joy comes from not just physical dominance, but psychological as well.
I want to control someone, body, mind and soul. The most joyous part of my day would come when I think about what we could plan together.
What would I make you do?
Where would the path I choose for you take us both?
How far would you go to reach the goal and how much would it please YOU to actually get there?
I am not looking for someone who wants to experiment.
This ad is not about a casual hook-up or fling.
What I need cant be satisfied through one night together. I need to own you over time, not because you were weak enough for me to TAKE control from you, but because you were strong enough to GIVE it to me and I was the man who could earn it from you.
I want someone who understands the difference.
Requirements:
*I need a lady. Dress the part and act the part not because I told you to, but because that is who you are. The world should see you as a someone who has class and sophistication, equally comfortable in business attire as you are in a pair of jeans.
*Someone with a head on her shoulders. Anyone can dominate a simple person. I want someone with some depth and intelligence.
*I need someone petite. No offense to you big gals; but I have always been drawn to women who are smaller framed.
Age: They say age is just a number but they are wrong. Im not interested in raising you. I am 43 so someone close to my age is somewhat important. No one under 35 please and if you have daddy issues dont apply. I am looking for a partner not a.I also like someone at least two years er than me. Hard to be dominant with and older person I guess.
* Pitt: looking for him? Its not me. Im a decent looking, chubby, successful guy. I can find a woman in the real world. Its just hard to find one that fits my "type". I find it hard to work it into the first conversation "Are you submissive?" LOL
*I cant stress this enough: you must be willing to not just play your role but enjoy it because it is who you are. I am the dominant one. You are the submissive. That will never switch in our relationship.
Something about that invigorates me and I know that some place out there, there is someone who feels the same way. I am looking for you.
If you fit the , send me an and really tell me who you are and what you are looking for.
If we sound like we could be a match; we will for a bit. Then, after some time, we can exchange phone numbers and text and .
After we build up some trust we might meet. Please dont me and ask to meet the first day we talk.
Again, I am NOT looking for just a casual fling. I am on a quest for something special.
IMPORTANT:
If you do hard , do not me.
If you love drama, do not me.
IF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND do NOT me.
Lastly; I own a few restaurant and they keep me busy a lot.
I can make time for someone special but if you require 24/7 attention I am probably not the guy.
I feel like this is a bit long with a lot of details but I want what I want. Better to be open and honest up front; dont you think? :)
J