There is a light beyond these woods...
Hello world I know most women that frequent this are in search of their idea of perfection. I am not so sure such a thing exists. The longer we this thing ed life, the more baggage we tend to accumulate. While I may not be the most perfect guy in the world, I am however intelligent and able to converse on a multitude of levels. I have a really great sense of humor and can find funny things even in the most difficult situations and times. I have a great job but I am missing something that is hard to describe. Have you ever felt alone in a crowded room? Or felt alone alongside someone that was supposed to always be there for you? I do not think there is anything quite so lonesome. It seems today everything is based upon who someone is, or what they look like. The number of choices on this internet provide an perfect storm whereby people are unfairly judged and passed over for that next latest and greatest response. What happened to us? Do we really want someone that is more in love with themselves then they are ever capable of giving to someone else. It seems the internet is ripe with these people, both men and women. Look, I may not have that perfect bod that all women are craving to me next to, but I do possess something that is very special. Compassion and passion for people. I treat others the way I would like to be treated. I judge a person based upon their actions and not a biased perception. A heart of gold is more than a body of gold. Time will ravage the body, but a heart of gold will always shine. One of the problems I am experiencing is that I have an empathic heart that at the moment feels empty. I am a great listener and know how to be a friend. I do not judge a person because things in their lives haven't gone the way they had hoped. I am a friend through the good times and bad. I do not ask for anything other than what is given freely. I am not asking you to give anything up, or change anything about your life. I offer honest and sincere friendship. I hear all the time that women say they would like a guy who was much like their father. Yet they gravitate to and scoundrels that cause them nothing but grief. I see these really wonderful woman being treated like dirt. I am a mature guy, too old for little girl , not that age is a barrier if one is mature enough to handle mature situations. Life is too short to feel alone in this world. Right now, I am financially bound in a relationship. I am planning on making a clean break once I am able to honor the things I am currently committed to (the ). I know many people do not understand this and think all married couple wants xxx dating looking for good sex I should to is walk about. I say, that in itself says a lot about a persons character and for better or worse, I am honoring my commitments. Some say this is nothing but about sex. My answer is straight forward. While I am not a prude and find intimacy between two people to be among the best things two can share, I am not looking for sex, I am looking for someone that would like a really decent guy to be friends with...yes... even maybe the best friend. I don't seem to connect will with today's man. I see a lot of BS and other egotistical behavior. This is something I do not identify with. My soul is from a different time and honestly, I find the conservations with the fairer sex much more rewarding and meaningful. I am not looking for a long list of friends, maybe just that one special person that I can text, or write to see how the day is going and what is going on in their lives. Maybe someone that would my friendship and would be anxious to hear from me. Maybe what I seek is too much to ask for. The older I have become, the more resolute I am becoming. I tend not to sweat the little things, get overly excited about things that have little importance (in the grand scheme of things anyway). I love to laugh, listen to just about any kind of music (sing in my car and occasionally in the shower). On cloudy days, a little popcorn and a good movie. Fresh air, good tunes and great company when the sky brightens. Photography is a hobby, along with a goal to learn something new everyday. It doesn't have to be rocket science, but there is so much to learn in this world and I still hunger to learn. If your still reading, God Bless you, it means you must relate on some level or that you have a persistent personality. Whatever the case may be, the next step is yours. Maybe respond with "You mad as hell, and you can't take it anymore!" (smile) Seriously though, I anxiously await your response. A kindred awaits